I have a lot to say on this subject. It’s not an easy realization to come to and it’s just as difficult to communicate it to those you care about. In short, friendships matter a lot to me. Without a solid family unit growing up, friendships have become my chosen version of family. And I’ve worked very hard at being good at maintaining them. Luckily I enjoy being a friend as I am naturally a very loyal and involved…
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I’m definitely a do-er. I love getting shit done. I love multi-tasking and going beyond what’s expected of me. & I know where this came from. My mom was ruthless about…
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Let’s talk about self-doubt. Let’s talk about what it feels like to never feel good enough. To relentlessly doubt your worth or value. You know what I’m talking about, … that…
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It’s normal to look up to your parents as they are your first example of what it’s like to be human. It’s normal to be proud of them and strive to…
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I used to spend most of my time (unconsciously) in a state of pure irritation. Everything bothered me. Everything felt like a huge task. Everything felt like work. My life was…
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What do you do when your brother, sister, grandma, aunt or cousin – are unable to understand your struggle? Are unable to fully see you in your pain and understand the…
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I know that most of us, if not all of us in this community – are highly empathetic humans. It is almost mathematical as for every narcissist there’s a co-dependent empath…
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I started off the year in a lot of pain. I actually remember crying to my sister on my living room floor on January 1st. I was carrying so much weight…
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We are our own worst enemy. The way I used to think and what I used to believe set up me for a life full of constant irritation, disappointment and negativity.…
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6 Weeks To Living On Your Terms
a reminder to the part of you that still wants to hold them accountable
Have you ever felt that you couldn’t let go of something until the other person knew how much they hurt you? Until the other person truly understood their role in your…