you've spent your life trying
to be seen by a mother
who wasn’t interested.

this is where that changes.

if you're the scapegoat daughter of a narcissistic mother — and you've spent your whole life being the problem, the difficult one, the one who just couldn't let it go.
you're in the right place.

i'm amanda. i've been no contact with my mother since 2018. i created break up with your mother because everything i found online kept pointing me back at her — her diagnosis, her patterns, her childhood. i didn't want more information about narcissism. i wanted to become a person.

that's what we're doing here.

here's where to start:

work with me 1:1 — the 8 week private mentorship for scapegoat daughters who are ready to do the deep work. [learn more →]

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